The accepted truth (or stereotype) that the
older we are the less we
like the present culture and the more we embrace the past is hitting me
right in my big mouth. I find myself more out of touch with current
music, fashion, art, literature, TV, movies etc. If you asked me to
identify current culture people or things I am probably going to give
you a blank stare and a shrugged shoulder. But ask me about the those
things associated with the 50's , 60's and 70's I'll never shut up when
answering.
Right now I am reading book about great events in sports since W.W.II
and ending in the early 90's.
And I just finished a book of
reflections by the late broadcaster/write David Brinkley. I don't read
what is currently the rage in books, nor do I listen to contemporary
music or watch current TV programs. Lives lived in past excite me and
the present seems a bore and vacuous in many ways. But why? Why is it
that so many people tend to lose touch with the current and more dearly
embrace the past as they age?
I write this now as I sit before my computer dressed in one of my
typical 60's outfit. I'm surely not going to wear a pair of those pants
that fall to the knees and reveal my butt crack. I have too much
respect for society to traumatize it that way. Strange though, I think
the young today look better in their current fashionable outfits than
they would if they dressed in my old style. Conversely, it should go
without saying that anyone over 40 looks ridiculous if dressing in the
current style.
Maybe we get stuck in our past because it feels comfortable and we
understand that one as we struggle to figure out the Lady Gaga, over
the top communication devices or why that kid down the street wears his
baseball cap backwards. We might like the Beatles because we have
wonderful memories of our own lives when we first heard them or saw
them perform live. We idealize the past in order to give us a reason to
flee the discomfort of the present.
I can't contend that the past culture is superior to the present.
Whatever is currently most popular must be the best for that society
since the majority embrace it. But I can say what is more comfortable
to me, and it isn't today's world. Humans often choose not on what is
"best" but what makes them feel "best". Problem is, the oldies can't
seem to understand why the younger folks like their world, and the
younger person also is clue less as to why the oldies are stuck in the
past. When I was young that used to be called the "generation gap". It
is a real phenomenon that makes complete understanding between the two
cultures a very difficult ideal to achieve.
I think it might be a good thing that we age this way, that we have a
refuge to hold on to that the youngest and most hip can't understand.
Otherwise....I would type this while wearing spandex and listening to
hip hop or rap music. And that wouldn't be a pleasant site for the
world to see.
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